This is more or less a transcription from an impromptu voice journal I did awhile back:
Spirituality means to be connected to your spirit, which is connected to the Universe. Any further explanation is usually an attempt to sell you something. Just like with anything, there are many paths to do something. Spiritual practices are no exception. If you are truly in tune with yourself (and therefore with the Universe), your path will unfold before you. You don't necessarily need a handbook of rules or a guide on how to be spiritual. You just do it. It's not some overblown cheesy thing and it definitely does not have to be forced. It's natural.
All you need to do is tune into yourself. What things have brought you true joy consistently from the time you were born until now? What makes you smile every single day? Examples: Sunlight, laughter, nutritious & satisfying meals, etc. What things don't bring you joy? Start to decipher those things and interpret why then boom...you're spiritual! That's it.
Of course you can meditate, use crystals, interpret numbers and all that, There are definitely tools out there to assist you. EVERYTHING IS A TOOL though. You gotta really grasp that. All you have to understand is that everything is connected, then find your flow within it all. The rules are out there but not necessarily in a set of things that anyone can tell or sell you. That's not to say there are not people out there than can help guide you. There most certainly are, but you really have to start figuring out some things for yourself first. You really have to want to figure it out on your own. Otherwise, you are just going to be constantly getting sold. And it's so easy to sell.
There are so many tools available on this earth. And it's ok to buy them, If you feel genuinely connected to another then sure, buy a lesson from them, buy a crystal from them or whatever. But don't be out here buying these things trying to be spiritual. Just be spiritual and then let everything else come to you.